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Friday, September 7, 2012

We’re here! We’re Queer! And we’re getting Married!


                                   Whitney Mixter and Sara Bettencourt of The Real L Word
                                            Engagement Photo courtesy of Makenna Hunt

Last night was the finale of one of my favorite shows, The Real L Word.  The Real L Word showcases the lives of lesbians living in New York and Los Angeles.  Last night’s finale chronicled the beautiful wedding between main characters Whitney Mixter and Sara Bettencourt.  I must admit, I shed a few tears watching as their family and friends gathered to support them on one of the most important days of their lives. 

Their rustic California wedding was absolutely gorgeous, but more important was the message the couple was delivering to the world.  It was clear that they were sharing how important marriage was to them as a couple, and to the movement to legalize Gay Marriage in our country.  The couple even traveled to Whitney Mixter’s hometown in Connecticut so they could be legally married, and so that Whitney’s 90 year-old Grandmother could witness.  Whitney was quoted saying, “We are both extremely happy and now we have that sense of closure when it comes to our commitment to one another.” 
It was very important for Whitney and Sara to share their wedding with the world

The bottom line is that this is a civil rights issue and American citizens should be allowed to marry whomever the love.  Same-Sex marriage is legal in only nine states, but same-sex couples have been having marriage ceremonies without legal ties for years. 

As far as planning is concerned, planning a Gay wedding is no different from a heterosexual wedding.  Luckily, there are tons of gay and lesbian wedding accessories available online including cake toppers, invitations and whatever else you may need. There are some great resources online to help gay and lesbian couples that are planning their big day.

Congratulation Whitney and Sara!

One of the best resources when planning a wedding is theknot.com.  They have a large section of their website designated to helping gay and lesbian couples, including real gay and lesbian wedding stories and inspiration.  More great online resource for gay couples are twobrides.com and gayweddings.com.  Each has ideas, stories, advice and wedding accessories available.  And of course you can always search Etsy.com for gay and lesbian wedding accessories that are hand-made and custom made.

This super cute cake topper reads Mrs. and Mrs.
It is available on Etsy.com from Shop SparkleandTwig

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